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Tuesday, March 01, 2005

Anger

Should I not care when I've angered someone? I've been called too sensitive, for not just being able to forget about how I did wrong and carrying on as if nothing happened. Even as I type this, a sense of illogical reasoning seems to govern the statement made. As far as I've been raised by my parents, after you do something wrong to offend someone, you a)apologise b)make it right c)try not to repeat it again. Carrying on as if nothing happened is a definite no-no. Well, I've been called other things before, but I think the moral of the story is, you shouldnt try to hard to please everybody, neither can you take into account what people say about you too much. At the end of the day, it is you yourself whom you're gonna go home to.
I went to have a look at Sirach (I like this book) and in Chapter 27 verse 30: "Anger and a hot temper are horrible things, but sinners have both" later on in 28:8 it says "If you stay out of arguments, you will not sin so much, because a hot temper gets them started" I think having met people who almost never display their anger was a good influence on me. But Im in need of 'booster' shots.

4 Comments:

At 11:38 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

feeling anger and feeling hurt what is the difference???

 
At 12:30 AM, Blogger Kevin said...

huh? how does the comment 'comment' on the blog post? if i have to answer the question, hurt and anger are related. you're hurt first, then it goes into anger or maybe dissapointment.from there, one either picks themselves up or leave themselves feeling shitty. No one gets hurt and then shrugs it off without any after effects.
New record! I replied in 1 hr from the time of the comment posted!

 
At 4:05 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Uncle kev!
Good to care ah... i think that's 100% right!
But don't CARE TOO MUCH that it makes u too conscious of what u're doing/saying, and not too much that u can't be urself :)

JUST BE YOURSELF~~~~~!!!

From: ur niece ^^

 
At 10:36 PM, Blogger Kevin said...

Wa...thanks 'anonymous' niece..lol ;)

Thanks for putting up with the weird things that get posted in the blog.....

 

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