Ever had someone whom you thought you could openly discuss matters with and not fear of being judged? I learnt the hard way that EVERYONE will be defensive about something no matter how hard they 'try' to be open. There are somethings people just already have a mindset on and when questioned, they just bring out their guns, ready to fire. Who doesnt have an ego? Who likes it when people ask questions about something that is 'sacred' to them? No one...how naive I am.