1 Peter 4:8-9

"Above everything, love one another earnestly, because love covers over many sins"

In black and white, put so simply, yet so hard to implement. What if you loved people so much the only way you could think of to not anger them is to avoid them? What if you feel you dont know how people have changed you no longer know how to approach them and you feel you should just take your chances not approaching them? But is this the easy way out? What if your exterior actions dont match your interior emotions? Does fake love count as love because you want to do the right thing?